Girls In Herds

Evil. Thats the first thing i thought when my girlfriends betrayed me. Aside from feeling betrayed, i felt overpowered, defeated by my fellow gals. That was highly demeaning.
We’ve all been hurt by our girl friends at some point or another and it is an undeniable fact that girls have that she-devil nature embedded in them. They have the sweet and calm side, the fierce and stormy side, the revolting side, the angry, mad and hateful side, the evil side, and then, the side you never want to see. Girls use words to push buttons that can send you to your roots and back. They are just that powerful. And this they can do alone.

Imagine a group of girls, coming together for a common purpose. That calls for caution. Together, girls are like a bomb waiting to explode. And they can do and say the most hurtful things.
When a girl is out to get you, she goes all out. Determined and focussed, a girl wouldn’t let anything keep her from reahing her goal and somehow she knows she’ll get whatever she wants.
Girls are dangerous. If there’s one thing you learn, let that be it. Dangerous with a capital D’ thay can be hugging you and tearing you apart at the same time. They have just the right amount of strength and will power to propel them forward.
But underneathe all these, girls are princesses, sweet, loving, caring and pleasant to be around with.
So whenever, you find yourself within the ‘she zone’, try as much as possible to be on the good side of the pack because the tiniest move you make can be the difference between living and dying. 😀

NB: please this is only a stereotype. Not all girls are the same

xx

Divergent Teen

quirky

What’s the first word that comes to my mind when asked to describe myself? Quirky? Its gotta have this certain feel to it whenever I say it, so I know its really me. Someone may say ‘unusual’. hmmmm, That’s not to far from the truth, but not too close either.
The truth is, I’m not exactly regular. I love to do things my own way, not at all caring who’s watching. I t usually gets me into trouble; sometimes it doesn’t, but I feel like I cant live any other way. I’m not one who’s crazy about ‘fitting in’. Maybe that’s why most times I’m the odd one out…

Odd. That’s another good word.
Someone can say ‘weird’, but that’s far from it.
These days, people don’t have minds of their own really, They are always looking to ‘belong’ in the crowd. And that’s something different about me.

I love to stand out.
Be different.
Unique.
I love it when someone can pick me out in a crowd. And I cant blend in with the crowd and still stand out. I don’t ever want to be included in a generalised statement like “Oh, she’s just one of those girls…” I’d hate that. I prefer “that girl…”.
So, most times I have to stand alone for something. Because the ones in the group will always stick to themselves and disregard anyone else who isn’t a part of them. But then, I don’t mind.

Anyway, most times I have to suffer for standing alone. For taking a stand most times, I’m crucified. And being the minority, I’m ignored. Totally cut off because I am bold to stand alone. But that doesn’t stop me, I still stand for what is right.

See, the problem today is people are still very much afraid to stand up for what is right. They don’t want to be the minority. They are too caught up in the crowd that they just move along with it, not knowing where exactly they are going.

You don’t have to do much really. You can start today. Don’t follow the crowd, take a separate decision. Make sure its the right decision and move along with it. Stick to it. Dont let anyone or anything stop you.
Stand out.
Stand tall.
Stand proud.
Be different.

-D.T